The female DJ firmly believes in the taboos of numerology and only accepts 4 zodiac signs and 6 zodiac signs when choosing a mate.

The female DJ firmly believes in the taboos of numerology and only accepts 4 zodiac signs and 6 zodiac signs when choosing a mate. (Photo by reporter Li Rongping)

"You can't date these zodiac signs, and you definitely can't date these zodiac signs!" A dating agency in Zhongli District, Taoyuan City recently received help from an eighth-grade female DJ. She has a beautiful appearance, a height of 165 centimeters, a master's degree from abroad, and many suitors around her. However, she has a set of almost watertight numerology taboos when it comes to relationships: only 4 of the 12 zodiac signs are accepted, only 6 of the zodiac signs are open, and the rest are excluded.

The female DJ said that she grew up in the south, and her parents took her to a numerologist in her early years. The person warned her that men with six zodiac signs were "untouchable" and that they might not only affect her life, but may even harm her parents. When she was in her fourth year of college, she decided not to believe in taboos anymore. The person she was dating happened to be on the zodiac sign mentioned by the numerologist. Unexpectedly, accidents happened one after another at home. Her father had a car accident and her mother was hospitalized due to heart disease.

Later, she encountered another zodiac sign that was regarded as "taboo" by numerologists. Her younger brother actually fell and injured his thigh during a sports meeting. A series of coincidences made her gradually change from being dubious to "preferring to believe it", and therefore she never dared to risk her feelings again.

"I also received a master's degree from abroad. I am not an ignorant or superstitious girl." The female DJ said frankly that she knew that these things may not have scientific basis, but the series of events that happened in the past have become a psychological shadow that is difficult to get rid of.

Therefore, when she went to the dating agency to seek marriage assistance, she directly made clear the conditions for choosing a spouse: only 4 of the 12 zodiac signs were accepted, 6 were limited to zodiac signs, and all others were excluded.

"Find the courage to believe in love"

Xu Naiyi, a senior matchmaker with 43 years of counseling experience, said that although such conditions are quite strict, he would not deny her because of this, but would first understand her long-term accumulated fear and anxiety. The service center will respect her conditions and help find a partner, and also hopes to accompany her to gradually dismantle the psychological pressure caused by numerology taboos.

Xu Naiyi pointed out that if each other is determined to be "incompatible" from the beginning, it is easy to magnify each other's shortcomings when getting along, and even interpret the friction that may occur in ordinary partners as "destined to be incompatible". Instead, problems that could have been solved through communication become the reason for the breakdown of the relationship.

Whether a marriage can last long depends on values, communication skills, tolerance and joint management. Xu Naiyi believes that for this female DJ with outstanding academic qualifications, appearance and career conditions, what really needs to be overcome may not be to find the "right constellation or zodiac sign", but to gradually get out of the shadow left by past coincidences and regain the courage to believe in love.