52-year-old mother Semra Özbay and her 25-year-old son Barış Özbay, who lost their home in the earthquakes centered in Kahramanmaraş, are trying to hold on to life together in their detached house in Gazi District of Antakya district after the earthquake they experienced. The family, who lost both their home and their relatives in the earthquake, has been struggling with a difficult process for three years. Barış Özbay, who lost his enthusiasm for life after the earthquake and dropped out of the university he was studying in, started playing on his computer and mobile phone all the time, became addicted to the virtual world and attracted Türkiye's attention with his life story.
HE LEFT THE HOSPITAL AND RETURNED HOME
The young man who meets his needs for survival; After approximately 3 months of hospital treatment, he returned to his beloved home. Özbay, whose life began to change after the news, stopped using his medications and continued to spend his days playing on his mobile phone when he returned home after the treatment process. Özbay, who was a matter of curiosity with his life story, also attracted attention with his weight gain and changing body and face.
Özbay, who returned to his old life at home after his treatment in the hospital, continues his mobile phone work throughout the day, which starts at the first light of the morning. Stating that he is happy with his life and does not want anyone to interfere, Özbay said that what he experienced in the virtual world did not affect him and that he could not harm living beings.
"I WAS HOSPITALIZED FOR ABOUT 3 MONTHS, BUT THERE WAS NO CHANGE IN MY LIFE"
Stating that he spends the whole day playing on his mobile phone, Barış Özbay stated that he does not want to organize his life and does not even want to take a shower, and said: "I kill time with my phone, I play all day long because I have nothing else to do. I sleep when I feel sleepy. I slept at 05:00 yesterday, I slept earlier the next day, and it changes from day to day. I was hospitalized for about 3 months, but there was no change in my life. I will not fully understand how psychologists work, but most likely, I guess, treatment methods help people with their own situation. kadar da kötü olmadığını anlatmak üzerine. Durumunu anlayan hasta da yavaş yavaş düzeliyor. Ama ben zaten her şeyin farkındayım, nasıl düzeleceğimi de biliyorum. İstesem düzelirim ama istemiyorum, gerek yok ve yaşamak istemiyorum. Nasıl düzeleceğimi sorarsanız, basit sadece üstüne gideceksin. Mesela şu an bir şeyler yapmaktan rahatsız oluyorum. Düzelmek istesem en basitinden duş alarak başlayacağım. İlk başta rahatsız edecek ama alıştıktan sonra rahatsız etmeyecek. Yani rahatsız eden her şeyin üzerine gideceksin. Ama ben o rahatsızlığı istemiyorum. Böyle daha rahatım. Fiziksel "I have pain, because of my illness. But minor physical pains don't bother me much. Games or movies affect me, but it doesn't affect me as much as it does a normal person," he said.
" FOR EXAMPLE, GOD KNOWS HOW MANY PEOPLE I KILLED IN THE GAMES, BUT IF I KILL EVEN A FLY RIGHT NOW, IT WOULD HURT"
Expressing that parents have a high influence on the child's personality and behavior, Özbay stated that what he experiences in games does not affect him anymore, as he plays on the phone. "I think everything ends with the mother and father. If you raise the child properly, he will not be affected too much. The child may see a murderer in a TV series or movie and think he is cool and do something. But it is not our fault, it is the parents' fault for raising the child badly. For example, God knows how many people I have killed in games, but if I kill even a fly right now, it hurts me. Games are that much to me." It didn't affect me. It definitely has an effect on this situation, but I don't think it is the main factor. I have no idea what its effect is. I am in this situation anyway. If I think about it and find out what it is, it is unnecessary.
"I DON'T REMEMBER THE LAST TIME I SHOWED, IT'S BEEN MORE THAN TWO MONTHS"
